I wanted to share a few tips for being a better milker as I have more than 20 years of experience in milking others!

Please comment or add to this list - it is just a starting point!

COMMUNICATION - Everyone has different tastes, so asking what your milkee enjoys (or might want to explore) is the best way to go. Some might prefer being milked on all fours, others might want to be bound and blindfolded, others may want prostate massage. Asking up front about interests and boundaries is the best policy!

COMMITMENT - If you have agreed to milk someone, it is important that you try to stick with it until they have released their seed. Milking is all about the experience of one party letting go while the other does the work. If you do run out of steam, just tell them and explore other ways to help them orgasm.

LUBRICATION - While not all guys enjoy lubrication, many prefer it. There are lots of lubes out there and many of them work well. I tend to stick with Astroglide or similar water based lube as it gets less sticky and tacky feeling then silicone based lubes. Its more personal preference.

PROSTATE MASSAGE - Massaging the prostate while milking a guy can take a milkee's orgasm to the next level (for those who enjoy prostate simulation). Use lots of lube, go slow, respond to your partner. Start with only a finger (or two) if your milkee is on the tighter side.

TOUCH OTHER SENSITIVE BITS - Identify your milkee's erogenous zones....it might be the feet, balls, nipples, neck, or something else. Touch and play with them to give an amazing multi-sensory experience.

ENJOY THE PROCESS - Milking involves exploring what works and what doesn't. The fun is more in the process than the incredible, explosive orgasm at the end. Its HOW you milk, and your enthusiasm for milking, that brings milkees back for more!