Hi all ISFJs I'm an INTP looking for help. Me (33M) and my ISFJ girlfriend (31F) have been together for almost 16 years and a year ago we finally decided to move together and things are not working as expected to the point that we have talked about ending the relationship. A lot of incompatibilities have become more and more noticeable and have become a problem. For example, she says that even after all the time she don't feel she knows me, and also that she feels alone living with me. From my part Im full of guilt because she is suffering and I feel I'm the problem, like I'm the one sabotaging our relationship by loosing hope on us, by being bored and by not being able to meet her standards. Anyway I don't want this to be a very long nor dramatic post but I really need to have a different perspective and I'm hoping some of you may be able to help me out. Maybe some of you have passed for this and want to share.