I am a healthy 35 year old male living in the Netherlands(came as an expat) with a good full time job. Been trying to find a partner on dating apps for two years both locally and internationally.

Tried looking on reddit as well. Made posts on r4r subreddits and expanded my search to even US, UK and the whole EU. Didnt find anyone.

I dont have any kids, I am single. I dont have any disability. I consider myself average looking. I dont judge people.

Maybe I am just too old for dating apps ?

I dont drink alcohol so I dont go out to bars and clubs.

Only option left is to go out and meet people but I have no clue where to start. My hobbies are gaming and movies. I have been an introvert my whole life.

Recently I decided I will try to put more effort in real life. The problem is I didnt have many outdoor activities besides working, walking and gym.

So even though I am willing to spend hours every week on this I dont know what to do and how to use my time efficiently.

I know many people will say meet people through hobbies. But my hobbies are indoor. My hobbies are gaming and watching series. Only major outdoor "hobby" I can think of is traveling but that is like once a year.

Recently I started going out to the city center on weekends hoping I meet someone but I havent been successful. But I just walk around and go home. I am trying to take action dont know where to start.