Hi everyone, I’m new to this subreddit so if the question has been asked before please advise. Ever since young I’ve found it challenging to flirt with women. This has prevented me from meeting women, to strike up conversations and such. I thought I was in the clear when I got married, however it ended in divorce. Since then, I’ve found it difficult in my early 30s when I got divorced to get back in the dating scene. Now that my children are adults and I have time for myself, I find it daunting to date. I never really learned how to approach women like extroverts do. If I go to a bar for example, if I find someone attractive, I might as well shoot myself because I don’t know what to say. I have tried to strike up conversations but I notice that my approach is not interesting enough for them to be engaged. For the longest time I thought I was just broken until I found out that I am isfj and we tend not to come out of shell easily. If anyone can point me in the right direction or give any advice I will really appreciate it, thank you