My marriage has troubled for some time. My wife and I have these waves where it so great then hard then great then hard. Right now we are in a hard wave. She works very hard at her job and I work very hard at home. Intimacy is gone, and she’s not affectionate at all. She will hug me when she’s feeling lonely, but there’s no passion or fire. She doesn’t help me with housework at all, and she’s I’m emotionally unavailable though I do most of the cooking and cleaning.

I had an intuitive friend once say we are twins but I have a VERY hard time believing that. This relationship feels more karmic and that I’m resolving a LOT of karma from a previous life with her. I just am at a loss now.