Variety of ways i made it implode:

Messaging my bf too much

Spending too much time with them

Not letting them pursue more

Asking why they didn't answer a question after maybe a week or longer

Unloading my feelings about being hurt and frustrated.

Not giving my bf enough time/space in terms of messaging etc.

Insert unknown reasons where i didnt know what went wrong (barely ever heard an introvert bring up what was wrong with our friendship, only in actual relationships sometimes if asked and they feel like telling me how much i suck or it sucks).

I feel like im literally like in physical pain if i dont tell them if im not happy, but .ost of these dudes didnt want to know (might be for most dudes), and introvert might just ignore me when i tell them instead of just answering, so is it even possible for me to adapt or just dont date introverts?

Friendships are easier for me because i dont need to spend much time with them so they would have enough space and distance and not many messages. Introvert friends do reach out to me at random times when they want to discuss something and i do that too.

Relationships i want to be speaking everyday tho, and at the start of dating it could be too much? (Even if an introvert started it?) I also feel like some of these guys wanna always feel like THEY choose it. Not that its a habit thing. That they do it because they want to and not like "this has been how our relationship has been so far"