I have a been going out with my girl for 2 years now, she moved away but we are still going strong. Now I'm a guy and I don't mind if we don't talk for a night or two, I sometimes just don't feel like replying to texts, and i always felt like it was me being a bad boyfriend, being uncaring, unloving even though I care so much about her.

now for me I am fine in social situations, large group of people is fine but not for a really long time, so pubs and clubs I can't stand. I enjoy sitting at home playing video games, youtube and sitting doing math problems.

when my GF is down she really doesn't like it when I wanted to go and play some games but when she is down we spend solid days together.

My feeling with this alone time has always made me feel like a bad BF, but then I found this subreddit and it all really does fit with my own feeling, I can relate with so much of these posts.

Would people agree that I'm introvert, but does this also make a bad BF? I am going to be talking about this to her tonight, but I would like to hear peoples thoughts on the matter