I know people hate relationship questions on here. But I’m still bummed out the falling out my ex and I had. I never connected with someone like that but I’m trying to figure out her MBTI. I’m still new to the MBTi after taking multiple tests and getting INTJ.

I’m gonna list the similarities and differences and see if you guys can give me an educated guess.

Similarities

We connected deeply on intelligence. Could have intellectual convos, on any topic, all day.

Loved playing words and minds games together.

Both were geeky and nerdy for alot of the same things like Sci-fi stuff.

Both shared the same type of humor and wit.

We both were very observant of the world around it and open to learning more.

Both were fiercely independent and more so home-bodies.

Differences

She was way more ntelligent that me. I could never beat her at the games we played.

She’s had a less expansive creative side I enjoy all kinds of art and music. I love making and designing any thing my mind comes up with. She likes more pattern based creation like quilting.

I was more spontaneous and less fixed routine as her.

She was good at bottling up her emotions and not communicating directly.