my significant other is an intj with a stressful life or death job. He hardly ever “mentions” me to people. and i feel pretty sad and in my head about it sometimes (i’m an infj)…. i worry it “means” something about our relationship.

When i asked once he said he’s a private person at work and his relationship status doesn’t “come up in conversation” do most intj’s feel “private”?

ps don’t dig into my post history unless you are ok with some nsfw.

eta: it’s just different from how infj operates so sometimes i just need some validation. i am an oversharer 😂

***UPDATE you guys saved my intj from yet another conversation about my feelings and he thanks you. i can feel it.