I know this is not for INTJ type only it certainly affects other types too (obviously) but why for some reason it has much more effect on the INTJs?

Context: I broke up with my partner after 1 month. I learned that she's not what she say she is. She told me stories when we were dating and turns out she withhold a lot of information and lied on some of it.

I felt manipulated and robbed off the ability to make a decision before (if I knew those things earlier I wouldn't have committed to her in the first place)

Now, it's still bothering me and being awoken by it in the middle of my sleep and weeks have already been passed.

It's not that because of feelings I know. I already dealt with that. I found myself replaying conversations and checking if I miss anything and analyzing how her stories contradict each other along with her actions. I am disgusted but at the same time in awe how people's brain works. And I can see how many can fall into these types of manipulation and wondering why they didn't see it in the first place.

See this is why I think I should not enter any romantic relationships. I overanalyze things and it makes me become numb and forget all the other things that I need to do to help me reach my goals instead.

I think I posted here to get some validations that I'm not the only one who's like this.

Thank you so much for reading.