Me and my ex broke up few months ago and since that I went back in dating apps again for looking.

Me matched this German guy from dating app and we talked a bit at the app, then he added my social media the day I was going home to visit my family.

At the beginning I wasn’t sure if I was ready to start meeting people again cause the thing with me and my ex kinda stressed me out. I was quite hurt and sad. When he asked if I was single or anything, I said yes then he told me he also just became single. He broke up with his gf three weeks ago.

Knowing that we both just broke up makes me wonder probably we both weren’t ready for a relationship.

After chatting for a week, he asked me out for meeting. I live near by his city. So on my way back to the city where I live after the holiday, I booked a ticket to his city to meet up.

Frankly speaking I was very concerned that it was gonna be a pointless hookup for getting some distractions from breakups. And I was kinda ready to enjoy some sex time with him. But from the chat conversation I found this guy quite sincere and nice. I was not too worried.

Anyway. He was waiting for me at the train station and guiding me towards him on the phone. When I finally saw him, I was like he is so better looking than his pics! I was quite happy 😃. Then we just talked and laughed. We went back to his apartment. We had some food and he would always look at me and listen to me and be very gentle 😆. We went for a walk after food. The feelings get much better ! And I thought he d kiss me during our walk but he didn’t.

We went back home and cuddling at the couch, he is too hot 😆 , we were watching movies and I expected him to kiss me! But he still didn’t! So I took the move and kissed him! It felt great!

The second day we went in hiking and after that we lay on the couch just relaxing.

Now I am back at my city after this wonderful experience with him, when we are at different city, he always texts me when he finishes his work and calls me. We calls every night. He drove to my city last weekend and we spent another beautiful time together. That’s when he said he loves me . (before it, he also texted me that he is strange to himself but I am different to him )I don’t get why he said this cause it is kinda too fast to me. I like him I do! But I don’t want to just be a heal for him to feel better from the breakup. (I broke up few months ago and I healed fast)

When a German boy opens up to you like this, does he actually mean what he say? (When he said that, I said I think I am little falling in love with you as well )

Advices needed from German! Thank you!

Updates: we have been dating for about row months now and he is officially my bf now. He also said I love you in Germany to me last weekend. And he is the cutest man I ever dated! He does my laundry, always makes sure I am warm enough, buys me food and snacks and also always gives small gifts now and then during the weekends we spent together!

He takes me out for holiday once and we are looking forward to next one he planned out with his friends together already.

He talked to his family about me and stuff .

Still advice needed: he is too perfect for me cause my last relationship made me lost hope of believing in myself as a good gf anymore.

So is he being serious to me?

And I have never found anything about him that I don’t like ~ how to make sure that he is not hiding those things I don’t know ? 😆.