so i’m a 26 year old bw and my boyfriend is a wm. i come from a very strict home and not in the loving way. i had moved out two years ago to live with my boyfriend but kinda did it on the low (packed one bag and just left). due to covid we both ended up having to move back to our respective parents home so we could save up and have ample time to find an apartment. now my parents don’t know that we lived together, they don’t even know we’re dating, but i basically am planning on leaving the right way this time (tell them i’m leaving and to live with my long time boyfriend) and i am totally fearful. i had asked my boyfriend when the day comes if he would help me tell my parents to which he agreed. i know this is a huge responsibility to put on him. but the fear my home puts into me has me terrified to even ask to hang out with friends let alone have a boyfriend who i’ve been with for 2 years. anyone have any advice for me and him cause the shock of a boy in my life is one but the shock of a white boy might just put my parents over the edge and i don’t know how to deal with the impending terrible aftermath