I (BW) have been single for 3 or 4 years now (time flies lol) and I’m ready to get back out there again. But I know how crappy the dating scene is currently and for some reason, living in the south dating outside your race is tough AF. BUT I really wanna make sure this time is a good one when I go out into the dating world again. I don’t want to go back out into the dating game, my heart on my sleeve, get a lot of love bombing and eat it up like candy, then crash and be irritated with dating (and irritated is putting it mildly).

I wanna find SOME joy in dating. I want it to be an enjoyable experience and find my person etc. So what tips does anyone have that could help?

And just a heads up, if your suggestion requires me to use a dating app, suggest a good app to try them on.