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Iâm currently 38 weeks pregnant and my in laws came into town to celebrate our daughters 2nd birthday party before her brother arrives in two short weeks or less, the day of her birthday party they kept making comments about breaking boundaries of no kissing and my husband spoke up and they said that he needs to respect them and give grace and then mil started crying, then later my daughter had her two dollies kiss and mil said ânow we donât wanna kiss anyone thatâs just terribleâ all sarcastic and rude TO MY DAUGHTER, and then I said âplease refrain from making those comments around her I donât want to argue with you but please donât do that.â And she threw my daughters toys on the floor ran and chased after me and got in my face screaming saying you listen here you little girl and started going off putting her finger in my face and then her husband (FiL) came in hot and screaming and cussing too I begged them to stop because my duaghter was terrified and they refused and said âthey donât give a flying fxck because sheâs two fxcking years oldâ and proceeded to call me a âbxtch â three times in front of my daughter , his dad put his hands in my face and then when trying to go comfort my daughter they wouldnât let me past them saying I needed to address everything now and I said it wasnât good for me mentally right now because Iâm pregnant and they refused until my husband told me to go upstairs and they let me then, my husband defended me to them until his mother started crying and now he chooses them. He said I was in the wrong because I shouldâve addressed his mother in a different way or just let him do it , and then I got advice from so many other saying itâs abusive and that we should do NC with them after that, and he refused and he chooses them and now he wants to separate. Where do I go from here??? I also have video and audio of the verbal abuse from his parents. Do I report them?
Wow. Your husband defended this behavior? My boyfriend would have a serious issue and would defend me 100% if something like this happened. Iâm sorry to say, but I would divorce him. Youâre his pregnant wife and itâs absolutely insane that he would take their side after this blow up. Their actions were completely out of line, especially since it was in front of your child. You should never have to endure this emotional abuse. If your husband doesnât have your back, heâs not your husband. You should never have to see them again. I can guarantee they will continue to emotionally abuse you because husband is enabling their horrid behavior.
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