• The very first night I met her (while I was just dating my husband), she told my BIL (husband’s brother) “I do NOT like her. She’s a cocky and rude mean girl that thinks she’s better than everyone.” She and I didn’t even have a convo for longer than 5 minutes.

• In 2016, my husband had just lost his dad and we were both the saddest we’d ever been in our lives. We were depressed and had no motivation to keep up with the house so things were pretty messy (we lived with my MIL at the time but she was almost never home). She and BIL came over to the house unannounced and she looked around and said, with an evil sneer, “You know the outside is a reflection of the inside, right?” That hurt us very deeply and we pulled away from her and BIL after that.

• She yelled at my husband in front of BIL, asking my husband, “What’s with your wife’s pride??” all because I didn’t agree with her that I would experience motherhood the same way she did. (She tried telling me that my kid was going to run my entire life like her child ran hers and I told her “No I don’t agree because I’m reading parenting books and learning all I can on how to have a balanced mom life,” and she replied “Well I don’t need to read parenting books because I read ‘THE Book’. ” (referring to The Bible 🙄). My husband of course defended me and when that was all over, her and BIL told people that we started “attacking” them out of nowhere… when in fact, SHE is the one who started it by attacking/disrespecting my husband!

• When I was pregnant for the first time with my son, she (who has 4 daughters) looked me in the eyes and said, “Having one kid is a JOKE.”

• She has convinced anyone who’ll listen that I’m gonna try to turn her own daughters and husband against her, which I don’t even know how that’d be possible. So, my husband and I are “not allowed” to speak to or be around my nieces/BIL unless she’s around to hear every word exchanged. That’s WILD to me.

• When I was 2 months postpartum, she had her husband (my BIL) literally yell at me via iPhone voice message to “STOP TALKING TO OUR DAUGHTERS UNLESS WE’RE AROUND”. All because I introduced my son to all the kids in Sunday School and his cousins happened to be in there. (She removes my nieces from attending Sunday School when it’s my and my husband’s week to teach because… ya know… I’m gonna turn her daughters against her. 🙄) I had severe PPA at the time and was afraid they’d get mad at me if I excluded their daughters from meeting their cousin and didn’t introduce him to them. That was so so hurtful.

• BIL told my husband that in order for them to “trust us” then we need to invite them over to our house. I had a separate convo with her and told her that I didn’t feel comfortable having her / BIL over. She asked me why and I (stupidly) explained why and when I did she said “I rebuke deception in the NAME OF JESUS” 🙄 like???? Okay?? Girl, bye. I was super stunned but I honestly shouldn’t have been.

• TW: miscarriage
  This next thing is a bit of a reach and I may be the crazy one in the wrong here. SIL was recently pregnant with their 5 child (1st boy) but she found out at 6 weeks that the baby didn’t develop beyond 5weeks. She knew this and when she was “9 weeks” along, she made an FB announcement that they were expecting. She literally led everyone on as if everything was okay and talked about how excited she was, that they were preparing for his arrival, etc. Keep in mind, she KNEW that the baby wasn’t viable since she was 6 weeks along but she waited to announce their loss on FB the day of my son’s 1st birthday (she was “15 weeks” on his bday). Idk if that was intentional but I can’t help to think it was. I know people grieve differently and I know my son doesn’t “own” the day he was born on but with everything else she’s done, it leads me to believe that it was intentional! I feel bad even including this but it just doesn’t make sense.

I’m soOoOo sick of her. What sucks the most is that we go to the same church so I have to see her way more than I would like. SMH. She’s the devil in a dress.