Thanks for checking out my post. This is new to me and haven't had any success doing this so far but still worth trying. I'm a single man, 38 years old. I'm white but a mutt and on the heavier side. 5'8" and 260lbs but losing weight little by little but looking to speed that process up. I'm drug and disease free. I live alone in an apartment in Banning/Pass area. I love hanging with friends and family, but they're not particularly close to me in proximity. Typically have to drive 1-2 hour each way every weekend to see them.

I would prefer to start this off with just chatting and verifying that we both are real. When we both are comfortable, we can meet up in public, maybe grab a drink at a bar, whatever is preferable to you. If things go well, then we can move on from there.

Hoping to find someone close who wouldn't mind coming over and hanging out. Watching a movie or playing games. I love showing people my old school games and watching them play. Nostalgia is very real. lol Just an FYI, if we play video games together, I'm pretty damn competitive and won't let you win. You have to earn the win with me. hahaha, I love to cook when I have guests over, but I can also keep it simple and order a pizza. I know not very diet friendly, but I'll just make it up at the gym. I also have a cool little liquor collection and love to pretend I'm a bartender and make people drinks. Sorry to say that I don't have the bartender flair, but I'll try. lol When it gets to that point, I'm hoping to find someone who will come chill, cuddle on the couch,  and maybe give you a massage while watching a movie. It would be preferable if it progressed to casual fwb.

I know this may not seem casual, but I'm not particularly looking for a relationship right now. I'm focusing on myself at the moment and trying to make positive life changes/habits. I just want that to be clear. If it becomes more than that, then probably best to simplify things and keep our distance. I prefer to keep things amicable.

I know my body physique is not preferable, but I know my worth. I cook, clean, massage, "bartend", and I'm hospitable. Only reason I'm posting an ad is because I'm not particularly comfortable starting conversations in public. which if you get to know me won't make sense. I'm an introvert and extrovert it just depends on the people I'm around and my mood for the day. Also, I'm sure contrary to my demeanor in this ad, I'm not a Sub. I will not make the first move on you because I prefer that you are in a comfortable environment that you feel safe in and move at your own pace. If we get comfortable with each other, you could see my more Dominant side. If it wasn't obvious, I do have a thing for feet, but am not into getting stepped on. Liking feet is new for me, and I love giving foot massages on clean feet.  hahaha

Anyways, thank you for reading my ad. If you made it this far, I'd say something caught your attention, and you should just message me. Just so I know you read this entire novel of an ad, write Sinatra in your message. You get brownie points for that. hahaha Write me, tell me about yourself, description, likes/dislikes, etc. please include a picture of you with verification; username and date so I know you're real. lots of spammers out there. You'll get a verified picture of me in return, and hopefully, we move on from there. Hope to hear from you. I'll be posting this ad on a couple pages.

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