I used to be a giving, considerate lover. But all that's ultimately gotten me in the long run is lied to, taken advantage of, and cheated on. So fuck that noise. I may be older but I still have a strong libido, and for now at least, all I want is to fuck. At some point I'm sure I'll want a partner again, but right now I just want a woman I can use to satisfy my simple lust, one time or ongoing, preferably without having to worry too much, if at all, about her needs and desires.

That said, I'm not a sadist; I'm fine with spanking you, for example, but I have no desire to seriously, physically hurt you. I'm also not big into bondage; I don't mind holding you down or using minor restraints, but I have no interest tying you up like some sort of erotic art piece. And I'm not an abuser; I recognize that consent is critical and I'll respect your limits or boundaries. I just want to take advantage of you like a living, breathing sex toy.

As long as I'm telling you what I'm not, I'll also mention that I'm not tall, fit, rich, or hung like a horse, and I don't have model/actor good looks. If those are all you care about, you can move on to the next post. With those folks gone I'll now say I'm also not short, ugly, morbidly obese, homeless, or packing a toothpick. I'm just an average white man of my age. Average height, chubby but working on it, bald on top, and average looking with fair skin, salt and pepper hair, and what I've been told are nice hazel eyes. I'm also clean, disease free, a non-smoker, and I don't use drugs (but I'm not judgmental about it). And finally, I'm real. A real person looking for another real person to meet in the real world and have real sex. I'm not a bot or scammer, and I'm not a pic collector (but I'll be happy to exchange pics once we've talked a bit).

I'm in Rancho Cucamonga, not far from Victoria Gardens. Or not far from where the 15 and 210 freeways cross, if you don't know where Victoria Gardens is. My current living situation doesn't allow me to host but I'm happy to drive to you, and of course I have my own transportation.

As for you, my primary interest is your attitude, your desire and willingness to be sexually used by a man. Attraction is a thing, but I don't care about most of the general physical stuff like age, race, body type, or whether your body bears the marks that life leaves over time. I do have a few basic requirements: please be clean, disease free, biologically female, and not a pro. I'm also open to a couple if for some reason what I'm looking for appeals to you, as long as you can respect that I'm straight and not looking for direct man-to-man play.

I realize what I'm seeking requires a certain amount of trust, and hopefully I've set the stage for that by being open and honest with this post. I'd appreciate if you'd do me the same favor in return. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I'll be looking forward to hearing from you some time soon.

M4F M4MF M4FM M4FF (yeah I know, snowball's chance in hell of that last category but a dirty old man can dream)