I'm a genuine, hard-working, caring man who also happens to be kinky (Dom). I'll be the first one to tell you my mind is buried in the dirt - but my heart is in the right place.

Pleasure not pain.

Okay some playful pain (like spanking) but no bruising or breaking skin. Respectful of safe words, limits, and aftercare.

White male, 5'8", medium build.

Idea of what I look like:

https://www.reddit.com/u/Virtual-Twist-9295/s/usrkJyIX2Q

Seeking:

• Single Female (not into married, attached, poly, ENM, etc.)

• 5'8" or shorter

• I prefer lighter to tan skin tones (no hate)

I'm looking for a continuous and exclusive connection. I understand that kink requires trust, trust requires time communication, and for us communication starts here.

I am willing to put in the effort if you are.

I have a much more extensive kink list, but at its core are:

• Orgasm control
• Light bondage
• Roleplay

My roleplay ideas: https://www.reddit.com/u/Virtual-Twist-9295/s/5lCcK6CwND

If you would prefer, let's connect on non-kink things first.

I've got a solid career and enjoy things like going out to eat and to movies. I'm child-free and hoping for the same.

Some of my favorite -

Shows: the office, big bang theory, true detective (S1 &4), stranger things, always sunny, and Futurama. I also enjoy paranormal investigation shows.

Music: Arctic Monkeys, Marilyn Manson, Linkin Park, Daft Punk, and The Neighborhood.

Comedians: John Mulaney, Jim Gaffigan, Matt Rife, Kevin Hart, and Rob Riggle.

I would like to meet in person kind of early on (this DOES NOT need to be sexual at first, we can go do something together for instance - what do you like to do for fun? Smoothies/coffee, etc. works too).

For me vibes are important, and text leads to miscommunications.

I can host. 420/alcohol friendly (when appropriate). I also like cuddling scary movies.

Will trade pics, if not compatible no harm no foul.

Last thing: I get that the whole "icebreaking" part is... Well it sucks.

Let's say that I am the one who reached out to YOU and asked your age, location, and your favorite movies, TV shows, or music.

SoCal, 951, IE