I'm an older man, stuck for practical reasons in a situation that in hindsight was probably a dead relationship years before I caught her cheating on me. Which sucks for a number of reasons, but the relevant one here is that I have a libido that's still as strong as it was when I was young and taking care of myself alone has gotten really, really old over the last few years. So I'm looking for a woman or couple who might be interested in having some adult fun with a man like me. I'd prefer something ongoing and casual, but I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't even consider a one-time meeting.

Assuming you'd like to know something about me, I'm 57, white, decent looking, average height, chubby or fat depending on your definitions (but working on it and not huge in any event), with a fair complexion and dark hair just starting to go salt and pepper. Well, aside from the top of my head where it's just plain gone (ie bald). I'm clean, honest, easy going, sane, tested disease free, and I don't smoke or use drugs. In short I'm not a romance novel or Hollywood fantasy of an older man, but I am am very real.

As for the sort of play I'm looking for, I'm pretty open minded. I've tried a fair number of things in my life and I've enjoyed most of them. I enjoy simple, normal sex just as much as wilder or kinkier play, though I'm not into any of the more extreme stuff like serious pain, toilet play, etc. And if you're a couple I can say from experience that while I'm straight and not interested in bi or gay play, I'm not concerned about incidental contact.

I don't have many requirements or expectations of you. I do ask that you be clean and disease free, and if you use drugs please just don't be one of those people whose whole life revolves around getting high. Attraction of course plays a part, but I'm old enough to know that sexiness is at least as much mental as it is physical, if not more. So I don't make a big deal about physical traits like age, race, or body shape.

I'm located in Rancho Cucamonga, not far from Victoria Gardens. If you're not from the immediate area and aren't sure where that is, I'm close to where the 15 and 210 freeways meet. I can't host because of my living situation, but I'm happy to drive to you within a reasonable distance. If you're in LA proper or Palm Springs or San Diego or somewhere like that and are really interested, I'd be happy to talk with you but I don't know if I'd be able to make that kind of distance work, especially for something ongoing.

Now if you're still reading, I'd love to hear from you. Just please say enough that your message doesn't sound like it's coming from a bot or scammer. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for. Tell me what city you're in or near. Ask any particular questions you might have. Tell me what you had for dinner last night. Whatever it is, just give me enough to get the sense that you might be a real person who actually read this. And please don't just ask for a pic. I'll be happy to exchange pics once we're both comfortable, but not right off the bat. I'll be looking forward to hopefully hearing from you soon.

M4F M4MF M4FF (yes I know, vanishingly slim chance of that last one, but let's be honest and admit this whole thing is a long shot, yeah?)