I'm an older man stuck in a dead relationship which, if I'm honest, was dead long before I caught her cheating on me a few years ago. I haven't been with anyone else in about fifteen years, and I haven't been with her in about five years, so at this point I'm more than ready for some human contact. And since I'll be staying at a friend's house in Riverside Saturday night to watch their dogs, I figure this is as good a time as any to see if there's anyone around who might be interested.

Assuming you want to know some basics about me, I'm 56, white, decent looking, bald on top with the rest just starting to go salt and pepper, average height, somewhere between chubby and fat depending on your definitions, and an average side tool, if that matters to you. I've been told my sack is big but I've never compared it to any others, so I can't vouch for that. I'm clean, tested STD free, sane, a non-smoker, I don't use drugs. The place I'll be staying at is a nice home near Riverside City College, and I can host if you're not allergic to dogs. Seriously, one is a large dog who sheds more than I've ever seen. I won't have a car while I'm there, but if you'd prefer to host I can uber to you if you're not too far.

In terms of what we might do, I'm open minded. If you're looking for something more limited than full sex, that's fine, though I'll be honest that I am looking for more than just conversation, a bit of making out, and perhaps a grope or two. If you are looking for sex, again I'm mostly open minded. I've enjoyed everything from mild to wild in my life, but I do draw a line at certain more extreme things like serious pain and toilet play.

As for my expectations for you, I don't have many. Attraction of course plays its part, but I don't care about most obvious physical stuff like your age, race, or body type. One of the things I've learned over the years is that sexiness is really more about attitude and enthusiasm than looks. I do expect you to be clean and disease free, and if you smoke or use please understand that you won't be able to do it while you're in my friend's house.

I know this will all make me sound desperate to some, but I'm not. I've waited this long and I can wait longer. In particular I'm not looking for an escort, and I'm straight so I'm not interested in other men. Though if you're a man/woman couple, I can say from experience that I'm not concerned about incidental contact. I might also be open to a trans man/FTM, but we'd have to talk about it.

Now if you're still reading, I'd love to hear from you. Please send more than one or two words, and please tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for. I do have pics to exchange but Iet's talk a bit first. And with that, I'll be looking forward to hearing from you.