I 22M am an INTP and my ex 22F is an INFP. We’ve been broken up for about 2.5 months now and have been NC for just as long. She broke up with me because “she didn’t feel the same connection anymore” and we were only together for 4 months. I was blindsided. I decided not to reach out for my own healing and hopes of maybe rekindling. The break up itself was pretty good. I feel like I made it easier for her by telling her that “its okay people lose feelings sometimes” or “I don’t want you to feel guilty or anxious” and I also admitted to her how in love I was and that I fell for her way to fast. I asked a bunch of questions like if I did anything wrong or made her uncomfortable she tried to reassure me that I did nothing wrong and that I’m great and sweet but I still don’t believe her. Long story short we said our goodbyes and told each other to have a good night. I also said that I was perfectly capable of being friends BUT that became a lie as soon we had wrapped it up. I still love her and think about her everyday and it doesn’t help that we still have each other on every social platform including steam and discord. I treated her with the upmost respect and always was considerate of her time and what she wanted. I always told her how beautiful she was. Im torn between reaching out to ask how she’s doing or just sticking with no contact for as long as possible or just burning the bridge entirely and telling her that it was never in the cards for us to be friends. Part of me doesn’t care if I hurt her because of her blindsiding me. I just don’t know anymore any advice from any infps? I’m not trying to treat this like a horoscope thing I just want to some insight from people who have similiar personalities to her.

Also one more piece of info. One night I could tell she was checking out but I figured it was low energy or something but after that night for almost the next two weeks (until the last day when she broke up with me) she was asking to make plans. She tried making plans with me twice in that span but they fizzled out or she told me that she was too busy and might have to reschedule. She had also been going through a really tough time at work and had told me about all of it and I tried reassuring her that’s she’s amazing and then she broke up with me two days later so idfk anymore man lol.