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I am one of them. I tend to like independence but when I get into a relationship there's always a void unless I'm in their company, and they provide me the warmth and assurance I need. This often results in feelings of extreme angst when my connections feel threatened, and can cause me to lose track of my own life in a bid to seek comfort from my partner.
I hate it, it's not who I want to be. I really value building myself up into an individual I can be proud of and respect, but every time I get into a relationship I start losing myself and become a shell of who I was before it. This doesn't sit well with me, as I hate being inauthentic.
Feel free to share your plight or offer some advice. Thank you so much 💫.
Haha same, but I am yet to run into such a person or even someone who is secure, everyone has been avoidant
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Welcome, and my condolences