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I’m so tired of people telling me to stop taking things personally.
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Such an annoying thing to say someone and it feels like a way to invalidate my feelings. Am I just supposed to feel offended when people say/do things that affect me negatively?

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good insight, thank you. i do agree that most people don’t feel things how we do but i hate feeling like our feelings are pushed to the side because we operate from a more emotional space.

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facts!!!

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i understand what you’re saying and i agree. i think there’s definitely some self reflection needed to let things roll off of me more easily.

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i get what you’re saying and respect your POV but i personally think it’s more nuanced than this. at what point is it disrespect vs. me just taking it personally? especially if you’re a repeat offender

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i fully agree with you! that tough love shit has a lot of people fucked up and they push that on other people too because that’s how they were raised

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that’s so fucking annoying lol

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