It happened for me once I felt like my job was something I felt invested in. Spending such a huge portion of my life just clocking in for a check, especially if its a source of anxiety, was wrecking me. Now, it feels like a cause that I can healthily "bring home" with me, and it not be a problem. I genuinely look forward to waking up in the morning when I go to bed at night because I want to continue what I'm working on. A job that let's me use all of my natural skills is refreshing and satisfying. I no longer spend so much time needing to self care, so now I can project all that energy outward. I find myself seeking ways to lend my remaining mental capacity to affect others. I feel like a beacon of love and energy. It's kinda weird for me still