Edit: Thank you all for your helps, insights, inputs and advice. Based on your answers, maybe she isn't really an INFJ rather she is an ISFJ or I dunno. since that's actually her top type from the test she got and INFJ is just second. Maybe it's really just a common young girl's struggle. I just considered her to be INFJ because almost all the quotes and memes out there about INFJ resembles her more than an ISFJ ones or more than any other types. I dunno. And maybe her immature side since she is still young that is why she has this kind of personality.

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It's very hard and very confusing. But if there's hope, I can stay by her side no matter how hard. But it's just so hard inside. She makes me love her, but then at some point she would take me to the highest place and she pushes me off the cliff. At times she'd feel extremely distant. Other time she'd pull me closer and make time stop. Huhu it's so hard. she is a very kind and very understanding person. I know that it's just that even INFJ themselves our confused with their feelings and stuff.

So currently she is in a cold mode again and it feels like she's pushing me away again. Should I strive hard staying by her side or is it just useless and I should just quit?

We're dating for just 3-4 months. I can't see anything about her that would make me leave her. Just this very confusing thing about INFJ.

Need help. 😭

I hope I wasn't making her look like a bad person. No. I am not sure how to put it in English the way you guys do. She is perfectly imperfect if that's a compliment. Because no one is perfect but she seems like perfect to me. The only thing that's bothering me is her confusing side. I can't see anything negative about her. I was wrong mentioning earlier that she was always like that, so i edit it. I was about to say she's been like that just recently. I was thinking because of the outside factors. We were okay before those external factors happened and other parties been involved (relatives/family). And maybe I was being too fast in being in a relationship? So I was trying to keep it slow but I am not sure if I am doing it right.

I have another post entitled "Most confirmed signs INFJ has feelings for me" for a detailed story. If you have questions to help things to be clearer, you can ask me. Please be more specific.

I am not 100% fluent in English so there might be misinterpretations in the way I speak or explain things.