I have a new, tiny freckle on my earlobe that I noticed today. I’m nearly 30, so new freckles aren’t always noticeable. I found myself wistfully thinking that I wish I had a lover who adored me to the point that they had my freckles memorized as well as, if not better than, I do myself. Maybe they would notice it before I even did and delicately kiss it before pointing it out to me.

I’m dreaming of this not for vain reasons, but simply because it would be lovely to be cherished so much that someone would take such notice of the smallest things about me. I’m a hopeless romantic, after all.

Any INFJs out there in love and happily sustaining a longterm relationship? As idealists, how do you handle the seemingly inevitable dwindling passion and romance over time? I feel so jaded by marriage and I don’t know if it’s just me and my nature to get restless in a longterm relationship once the spark fades, or if I’m married to the wrong person. Tell me about your opinion and experiences, or call me foolish. I would love anyone’s unfiltered thoughts! Thank you in advance.