I’ve figured out what I truly want in a partner, but I have no idea where to find him. He’s confident, playful, and knows how to challenge me while still making me feel safe. He’s an ENTJ, an 8w7, sp/sx - a bold, decisive type who’s protective and passionate about the people he loves.

He can read between the lines and understands what I’m feeling without me always needing to say it. Someone who picks up on the little things and just gets me.

Physically, he’s tall, strong, and keeps himself well-presented. Looks aren’t everything, but I need that spark - that moment of this is my person. With this in mind, I think until he finds me, he's mostly busy with work/gym.

I’m a shy, quiet, and reserved INFJ, so putting myself out there isn’t easy. I feel like the kind of person I’m searching for isn’t likely to be on Reddit or dating apps, he has to be local to me in the UK, but my town isn't really the kind of place for him, but where else do I look?

Any advice is welcome.