Atleast in my college I feel that there's this terrible lack of support and apathy towards students and always a tendency to villainize students for no reason. For example, they always assume you are looking for a way out of doing work/ studying or are always looking for ways to undermine the college authority or something. But we are not. I have lived in the hostel, I have seen that my classmates work hard and are just looking to get by. Yet the college constantly keeps throwing random bullshit at us in the form of unrealistic deadlines or weird policies and then blame us for being lazy, disrespectful etc for failing to comply despite doing our best. Then comes the talking style of most people especially the administration. You cannot speak to them normally without getting your head snapped off. I just don't get why they are always angry for no reason. Some professors are also like this. They don't care at all and straight up ignore student's doubts and difficulties. The reason this is so baffling to me is because of how polar opposite it is to my school. My school wasn't perfect but I did feel safe and supported there. I didn't have to worry about things like missing an important deadline because of some genuine reason but I know if it happened in this college no one would listen and just automatically assume I was making excuses. I don't know what I want honestly, it's just I would like the feeling that I have a bit more support from my college the way I felt in school.

I just want to know if anyone else feels this way and how do you deal with it?Are students always treated like inferior beings in colleges? I constantly dread dealing with college and it has caused me so much anxiety and stress for the past three years.