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Starting a new life... advice and support are welcome!
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My mommy and I have been in a relationship for four years now. Very mutually supportive, very loving. It's not some "i fuk my hot mom lulz" thing. We had a conversation very early on that this isn't a kink: this is our LIFE, and we want to build it together.

She's in her early 40s, and we've had to make a hard decision: we've talked about children for years. We have a loving, supportive relationship and to create a life to provide for and protect is a natural choice: if we were a normal couple, we would have done so by now.

Though I'm still in my 20s, we had the discussion that if we truly do want children then that window is closing fast: as much as we want to pretend, it may have already closed.

So we've made the choice to try and grow our family and share our love with the a new life we'll (hopefully) create.

I suppose that it sounds odd...but I would really like some support, and know that this isn't just my mommy and I against the world.

Are there any support groups? Heck, even any reddits? We're not looking for porn groups: we're very concerned about having support during this special time in our lives.

If you have any questions, you're welcome to ask.

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We've been together for about four years, and to be honest we both wanted to start trying sooner: she has told me very openly that she had wanted a child with me since before we were together, but didn't approach me because she was afraid I would feel like she was trying to trap me. On the other hand, I was shy about it because I didn't want her to think I was objectifying her and wanting her just for her body.

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Thanks for the reply!

How hard did you two have to try?

We're really looking to increase our chances as much as possible.

And also...do your daughters know about your relationship? How did you handle that?

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Thank you! We're looking to try and make it as low key as possible. But I'm very adamant about being there, and making sure she knows that this isn't just something she has to go through alone: I'm there as well, and I'm doing what I can to make sure she's supported.

And that kind of opens the door to other things...this is definitely helping me adjust more into being her man. I was (and still am) her son, but now I'm becoming her husband.

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Thank you for the kind words. We're definitely open to find a supportive community, and be supportive in return. There are alot of stigmas, and I'd like to dispel them. We understand all the risks here, but we have a beautiful love and feel it would be a waste to not try and bring a life into it that we can share that love with.

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