In my twenties I used to travel abroad quite a bit. Went to numerous countries, many in SEA where I met plenty of backpackers and locals. SEA is a mecca for the solo male traveler, especially as a white European.

Long story short, I had a LOT of sex. Sometimes with a condom, but most of the time without. Early twenties on vacation aren't the most responsible people out there. I can count 9 girls I had sex with where I know we definitely didn't use a condom (alcohol and other things is a hell of a drug). Some more where my memory is hazy.

I almost never got their number. Typical one night stands with girls of various nationalities so it was spread throughout the globe. Now realistically they might've been on BC or the seed didn't take or maybe they had an abortion. But the sheer quantities begs the question, what if someone got impregnated and carried it to term? Am I a father without knowing? Sometimes I wonder about taking a DNA test and the fear of getting several matches trying to find their daddy make me sweat, and, as you can guess, how much of a turn on it is.