I've just discovered this group today after years of hypersexuality and having zero people to talk to about it - therapists/psychiatrists in the past just kind of glazed over it when I'd lightly bring it up (as opposed to shouting "I'M HORNY ALL THE TIME, DOC")

My wife and I haven't had sex in over 7 years and while I haven't had the "courage" to cheat, I do attempt to meet people on various sites (my wife and I are essentially separated under one roof)... but I'm shy and anxious despite being in dire need. I masturbate several times per day - which I have no guilt, if the time spent isn't ruining other responsibilties, stroke away which is genuinly what one psych said - and while it feels good at the time, I'm never satisfied. I've even started shaving my legs (well most of my body really) and wearing 2-3" inseam shorts around because, this is vain I know, my own legs are a turn on for me (though, I think all men should give it a shot, it feels clean and freeing) While I feel like it'd be far more satisfying with another human I know that with hypersexuality it won't be fully satisfying.

Again, I just needed to get my situation OUT since I've never been able to talk about it and it's good for me to find a group of people struggling with the same thing who would understand.