We can all agree that HS has nothing to do with one's sex life, whether active or non-existent. Masturbation is the least/ minimum sexual relief anyone can achieve, whether HS or not.

But what is more difficult and frustrating - HS with a voracious sex life or HS for virgins or ones with sex as rare as once every few years?

Ones who engage in sex excessively have their own set of problems - feeling guilty and shit, not able to function properly in day to day life, feeling used like trash, feeling the burden of emotions with multiple partners and so on....

And those who have never had sex or do very rarely have their problems too - feeling left out/ missing out, feeling not good enough/ worthy, feeling isolated, feeling envy/ jealousy, etc......

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Which one are you and how do you cope/ manage it? Share so we can learn from one another's struggle.