Hey friends, just discovered this community and thought “what the hell, maybe they can help” with my situation. I’m straight and attracted to women.

So I’ve accepted that I’m hypersexual at this point in my life. And for the most part, I love it. I can last longer in bed than any guy I know, I’ve had women ask to sleep with me because a friend told them how good I am in bed, I almost ALWAYS get it up again within minutes of finishing, and I can finish over and over again without getting worn out. When single, I always jerk off 3-4 times a day minimum, and have a strong orgasm with a healthy amount of ejaculate every single time. I really love it.

I don’t bail on friends, family or work, and my life is ok. I’m not looking for help, or trying to fix anything. This is me.

I never really realized I was hypersexual until maybe 5 or so years ago. Even then, as I was at age 13, as I am now, I am literally always horny, 24/7, no matter what. It doesn’t matter how many women I’be been with, I always want more. It doesn’t matter how good the fuck is, or how hard I cum or how many times I cum, I always want more. Its never, ever, even CLOSE to enough. And in the rare events I am tapped out for the night and can’t go another round? All I want to do is keep eating pussy til’ she tells me she’s had enough.

But up until that time I thought I was normal. Guys are SUPPOSED to always be horny right? We’re SUPPOSED to want sex, way way way more than the girls we want to sleep with us, right?

But as I entered my 30’s, still single, and with a goal of actually being married by 40, I’m beginning to realize the problem is my hyperactive sex drive.

No woman that I’ve dated (not counting hookups and FwB) has ever come CLOSE to satisfying me sexually but I also never expected one ever could.

I’m now thinking that may be the problem. Because sex is so important to me, maybe if I could find the right girl, the girl who is 100% my doppleganger in sex, I’d be willing to overlook any other flaws I may percieve because they’ve just filled the biggest hole in my life.

And it can’t just be ANY girl. It can’t just be ANY girl who WILL have sex with me all the time. It has to be someone who is truly hypersexual. Someone who WANTS to have sex all the time. The kind of girl who not only matches my sex drive as described earlier, but the kind of girl who will constantly masturbate if they can’t have a sex partner over in a few minutes, the kind of girl who always wants to sleep with other people, enjoys when her partner sleeps with other people, and wants to continue that behavior long after being married.

But beyond the sex, I’d also hope like me, their friends and family see them as a relatively “normal” person. I don’t share the extreme extent of my sex drive outside of my very closest circle of friends and I’d hope she would do the same.

So with all that said, what would be the best way for myself to find such a partner? Or for those of you in these relationships, how did you meet?

I can use dating apps and pick up people in person like I always have in the hopes one turns out to be the right one, but its like finding a needle in a haystack. Often after I start talking about sex with these girls and explain I’m different than most guys in that I’m ALWAYS horny, they say “I’ve never had a man keep up with me ; )” and for the first few meetups it can be good but after a few weeks I realize they truly aren’t hypersexual (at most only they would only want 2 rounds of sex a day on the weekends, and on weeknights on average they only wanted sex or masturbated once or twice weekly), and none ever came close to wearing me out.

I’ve had the most success on reddit, posting on r4r’s explaining EXACTLY what I’m looking for and its led to some success but just wondering if anyone else has found a better way.

Truly appreciate any advice or tips any of you may have!