I'm 25m. I've been hypersexual for some time. It's gotten in the way of relationships and I'm constantly sexualizing people I know. I've worked a lot on setting my own mental and emotional boundaries so it's been better in the last year or so.

Now I'm having consistent sex 1-3x a week. The quality varies. Sometimes it's good. Sometimes it feels like a chore. Either way if I do cum (sometimes I don't because it takes too long) I'm satisfied for all of 1 min then I'm horny again even if I can't get hard. I thought the sex would help get rid of my "horny brain" but the thoughts and perversions still consume me. I'm still jerking off 4-6x a day or edging for 3 hrs at night-which is messing up my sleep schedule a lot.

I feel like maybe it doesn't seem like a problem each time but when I think about it overall it makes it hard to control my thoughts and continue with the boundaries I have made.