I have a high libido where I’m always “on,” but I’ve gotten better at ignoring it so I can get through my day-to-day. I try to save aside that energy when it’s appropriate for me to get alone time (with varying success). It’s not so frequent that it’s every single day; I can masturbate every other day or even just once a week if I’m that busy.

My problem is more that when I DO finally jerk off, it’s like a dam being released. I have no self-control, my minimum is usually 6 consecutive hours. I get fatigued, I get hungry, I’ll keep going even when it hurts. I never feel satisfied after because my libido either returns immediately or the “afterglow” lingers. When I do masturbate everyday, I still don’t have self-control (in fact, I just feel hornier when I stop), but it does somehow get worse if I have to wait as long as a week in between sessions.

Is there any way to find a balance? Can anyone else relate? I don’t mind the frequency as much as the duration, but I just don’t know how to stop. I wish one orgasm was enough, but I could go numb with the amount of orgasms I have in a single session and still go back to square one.