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Positions Within A Dynamic
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Hola,

Is there a disparity of positions within your MESM (mental / emotional sadomasochism) relationship? If so, how is that reinforced?

[It's probably worth noting, I'm aware for most people that disparity isn't going to be a 24/7 thing. I've had relationships in the past, where parts of it were, but on the whole we were equals. When I'm in a relationship, I like to say, "We're equals. . . right up to the point I say we're not."]

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When my Husband and I are walking together. He is always perhaps a 1/2 step ahead of me. The gap isn't great, but it's enough to show that he's leading, and I'm following.

Or when were posing for pictures, my stance is again slightly behind him.

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