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MESM in every day life.
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Hello you terrible thing!

Are there any elements of MESM (mental / emotional sadomasochism) that cross into your every day life?

I had a partner, who I would sometimes refer to as 'fatty.' "Come on fatty, time for us to make a move!" In truth, it was a deliberately provocative, but endearing nickname. She knew what I was like, and understood I wasn't calling her fat. The real fun was in watching everyone else loose their minds, whilst being entirely blasé about the whole thing.

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This is a very subtle thing. Whenever I'm walking with my husband. He is always leading, and I'm always following. It's so subtle, I'm perhaps half a step behind him.

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I'm British, and I have this weird thing. When I'm with my husband, or with a man that I've fucked, I'll curtsy to him. When first greeting him or leaving him. It's my way of showing my deference to him, my gratitude, his leadership.

In today's modern world, a curtsy looks antiquated. Even misplaced. But for the men that know my underlying meaning, the power and control is alluring.

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