Everyone says it is so beautiful. But I don't find any beauty in that city. But it is always cloudy or foggy and cold. and the water temperature is quite cold!! I don't like that one bit. I live so close to it. I don't like it. I try to avoid it. My sister or friends usually invite me there but then I say, "I am okay. I'll stay here." Only fun I had there was for my friends bachelorette but it was at night and the women made the trip fun.

It is always the same deal, this awful sadness hits me when I go there. There is a a strange vibe there. I recognize in myself that I love warm weather and tropical locations. They make me so happy. I like when the bright sun hits my face and the water ocean is warm. I can't stop smiling. My sister invited me on a trip to New York with her and I said, no thank you. That city just by looking at looks like it will make me feel sad as well. Fast paced and no warmth.

Anyone else relate to this?

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