(Is it more polite to put requirements first or who I am first? Either way, read this in any direction you want.)

We can still be friends if FWB doesn't work out. If you don't want that, don't interact. Furthermore, I don't do hookups or one night stands, I like to get comfortable first. What that looks like can vary but I want to connect with someone. Never any pressure—just don't force sex please and communicate if you're uncomfortable too. It goes both ways, your heart matters as much as mine does.

Requirements : Have an interest in my interests and lifestyle and I will for you too with the same energy. Also, you don't need to LOVE everything I enjoy, that's the beauty of opposites attracting. : Will let me serve you with force or affection and the reverse. : Will let me scratch and bite you and the reverse; for you it does not have to scar. : I am open to being more boyish in style. I am smooth or rough down there, don't care.

Looking for!

An androgynous lean man, or feminine in some ways. (Masculine men muuuust be a little queer or else why are you here!?) Long hair preferred but not a dealbreaker. Switch for switch preferred (I want to soften you up) but switch for dom is great too. Prefer someone with a cock. More of a powerbottom I think, but I am learning! Please let me explore and be patient with me!

Either: *a masc boy that's not afraid of femininity and being soft but is dominant/switch. * pure masc *a boy that crossdresses like a girl sometimes *a femboy *butch transwoman (transphobia is not allowed here)

Please don't be afraid to ask what I mean by these.

Physical description! I'm 5'8" , hourglass, slim thick (healthy weight). "Boy pussy," girl-shaped and I'm not afraid of it, I often shave. Don't want to get too into it, but you can ask. Trying to get more toned but I have hip dips and even though there's a lot to grab, I'm on the leaner side.

Personality and style! I am told I can be nonchalant and very personable, attentive. Big on giving gifts and spending quality time with someone even if we clean your house as long as we're having fun. I am naturally comfortable and more "cute" when I'm warmed up to but it oscillates. Physically affectionate, but shy. Not hot and cold I get a bit thunder.

Grunge/punk/goth/etc. (spectrum) non-binary. Looking into wearing a binder and looking more androgynous (not often lately). I present androgynous with feminine makeup/without. Love just grunge eyeliner or experimenting with colourful looks for fun.

Interests! Artist (realistic and manga), cook (Japanese, French; anything), writer, love 1900s literature—love people who love just about anything. (WILL pick up on your interests if you do mine.) Retro games (DoS), internet history, (if you like computers, I love learning about anything tech related from the cloud to coding so teach me), smallweb, music (huge interest of mine, older stuff, grunge, post punk, punk, very avant-garde goth; looking into playing a string instrument seriously). And anime is fine, but I mostly read manga unless the show is good. I enjoy older films and shows (acclaimed, foreign, or camp) from different eras, especially older ones. Getting into making fancy coffee and special drinks; I try to limit food high in processed fats for my sake and gut and tend to eat fresh.

Kinks Very specific petplay and "reverse trap" and force femme tomboy (only in kink). Some somno, teaching kink (student/teacher or teacher/student). Force, biting, collar-grabbing, scratching, spanking, bruises (hickeys or smacks). CNC and permanent marks really highly depend on our comfort level, same with blood. I like to seduce. Pillow princess can be hard because I like to offer but if the mood is right I'd love to...if I wanted to be a dead fish I'd be a plaice mat. (yay fish)

Hardlines Not into scat or turbo weirdo shit (just ask dude).