Ever find yourself awake at 3am, wondering how you ended up watching a documentary about something weird, like government cheese? Or maybe you've experienced an existential crisis spiraling into oblivion late at night? What about both at the same time? Let's talk about it.

My name is Jether, and I'm a 24 year old Filipino guy. I'm an introvert who values deep connections and intimacy. I'm hoping to find someone who's kind patient, and understanding, and is open to creating a chill, respectful connection. I'm open to long term relationships and friendships.

A bit about me:

• Height and build: I am 5'7", 235 lbs, and have medium length dark hair. Getting the hang of this dieting thing so far.

• Background: I'm a university student while working night shifts full time. I'm studying for a bachelor's in software engineering and I am greatly enjoying learning how to code.

• Interests: I love video games, collecting Pokemon cards, watching anime, as well as binging true crime videos, horror movies, and I'm planning to start gardening soon (looking to volunteer at a local botanical garden!)

• Personality: Self-reflective (AKA chronic overthinker), open-minded, and sincere. I may be a bit shy at first, but I genuinely enjoy meaningful conversations. I'm a night owl at heart with a mind that never rests (sometimes to my own detriment).

2 facts and a lie about me. Can you guess correctly?

1. I used to work as a flight attendant.
2. I was bitten by an ostrich as a kid and I cried. A lot.
3. I once burnt a steak so horribly it congratulated me. To this day, I have no idea what for.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who's easygoing, open-minded, and understanding. No pressure, just a genuine connection.

Mutual respect with clear communication.

The chance to connect as people first and see where things naturally go.

So let's talk about it. I'll bring the existential dread, you bring the snacks, and maybe we'll figure out life together (or at least laugh about it). Looking forward to hearing from you :)