As a natural-born leader, I've always been drawn to guiding others and helping them reach their full potential. But my ex introduced me to take my professional desires and help discover the value of creating a safe space for her to explore her thoughts and desires.
Using BDSM principles like power exchange and mindfulness, I've been able to help her confront their fears and limitations, and develop a deeper understanding of her. It's been incredibly rewarding to see her grow and thrive.
The power exchange dynamic was particularly powerful in our sessions. By establishing clear boundaries and guidelines, I was able to create an environment where my she felt comfortable surrendering control and exploring her vulnerabilities. It's a privilege to be trusted with this responsibility. We used simple tasks her like calling her family once a week to rebuild broken relationships or reading a book to increase knowledge. I also created rules around learning new professional skills which helped her get promoted. It's amazing to see the positive impact this has had on her life.
In my view, dynamic isn’t just about s€x and it’s much more than few mins of penetration. You can’t achieve that in hook ups and it’s definitely not rough/abuse
Lot of people think oh just I am yours within few mins of chatting. It’s a lot of trust on both sides. Good communication and alignment can make it so much better. All that takes time and energy, it’s a dynamic that develops over time.
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