Looking for the kind of clinginess that Saran Wrap would be jealous of. A therapist said a person needs per day 4 hugs for survival, 8 for maintenance, and 12 for growth - and you think those are rookie numbers. You will yap and ramble about the most random things. If these things all sound like you, I’d love to hear from you! I am single, never married, no kids (though interested in having kids in the future).

Talking kink first, my dom side can show up in different ways. I can be a soft dom who will shower you with praise and will be your emotional blanket fort - providing structure and a safe space away from the noise of life. I can be playful and tease you and find fun activities to explore together. I can also channel a little sadism and pin you with “funishments” whether it’s some impact play, restraints, chores, or something else we agree upon. I’m more curious to know what play my future sub is into and work through that.

In my vanilla life: I have a very successful career in something nerdy that I love and affords me the opportunity to work remotely and travel. I’ve been all over the world on many solo trips, and I’m ready to have someone accompany me on future travels. In my free time, I have a mix of hobbies. Some nerdy hobbies include reading/watching Sci Fi (Love Brandon Sanderson, Andy Weir, The Expanse, Futurama), playing TTRPGs with friends, occasional video games (Mario, Zelda, Hollow Knight, Rougelikes), and building Lego sets. I also enjoy cooking fun recipes. I’m trying to be better about tending to plants around my place, and I’d love to spend more time practicing art. While I don’t expect you to be into all of the same things as me, it would be nice to share some common interests to build a connection on. I would highly prefer someone who’s local, or interested in meeting in person soon if there’s distance between us.

On physical appearance: Women have said I’m cute, but some may not considered classically handsome. You’ll be the judge lol, but hopefully you’re someone who’s more “open minded” when it comes to things like race and height. Happy to share selfies early on to make sure we’re both into each other. I don’t really have a type when it comes to physical appearance.

Anyway, that’s it for now! I may be a little late to respond if you message me in the middle of the night, but I promise I’ll reply in the morning. Thank you so much for reading all the way to the end, and if I’m not what you’re looking for, no worries and I hope you find your person soon. Have a wonderful night!