We chat. Exchange pics; establish safety/trust. I host (in Montrose).
Here is our sensual itinerary, plus rules:
Once we’re in-person, we are absolutely not allowed to speak to one another; no utterance of words; no voicing.
We each put in an earbud that is playing a white-noise playlist
We take turns removing each other’s clothes, but nearly in slow-motion (this is critical)
Once we’re finally nude, we embrace once & hold the hug for exactly one minute
Then we lay down together.
I set a timer for 30 minutes. During the 30 minutes we kiss, continuously, never stopping until the timer goes off. (Yeah, 30 minutes!)
After that, you get up & peruse my bookshelf & randomly select a book & pick a page & we take turns reading a passage from the book - it’ll be the first time we hear each other’s voices.
After that, we debrief, & discuss what the experience was like.
~fin~
Me: white, 5’11”, fit/athletic, love: playing soccer, music music music, affect theory, art, French psychoanalysis, reading in the park, bed rotting, being online a little too much, winter, etc etc
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