Looking for long term friends with benefits, but are open to short term. Not too interested in a one night stand. We are an ENM married couple, we are a bit chubby, but I would not say obese, the husband has a very high sex drive but the wife does not. So we are looking for a lady that is open minded, relaxed, fun, and probably a bit of a nerd if possible.

Listed below are just a few of our ground rules and desires

• Must be recently tested for STDs and come back clean or be willing to get tested.
• Must be willing to meet in person before any physical activities. It will be up to you if you want to meet the wife on the first meeting or not as she is often concerned with other people's comfort as much as her own.
• Single or in an ENM relationship. If in a relationship we must be able to speak with your partner to confirm their comfort and consent.
• No money of any kind will be given to you. We do not mind going out on dates occasionally and splitting the bill with the occasional paying for your meal.

We can host, we are 420 friendly, not big on drinking but have some alcohol, and overall we just like to have a relaxed time with the occasional odd goofiness. We are nerdy gamer shut ins, the husband is 6'6, white, slight southern accent. The wife is not interested in joining but does not mind hanging out, going out to eat, and if you are interested in her being involved she will consider it depending on how well you both click.

Exchange of pictures is required. Please do not message if you are not willing to meet in person, someone who can hold a conversation is also preferable but if you are shy and have a difficult time we are also very patient if you are at least honest about it and willing to meet in person at the very least so that we can talk.

Do not message if you are a guy, the wife is not interested at this time.