We are currently looking for a long term friends with benefits and are not too interested in a one night stand. A bit of information we are a chubby, but I would not say obese, married couple where the husband has a very high sex drive but the wife does not. So we are looking for a FWB that can give the wife a little break from constant advances. We are both introverts, nerds, and gamers and would rather find someone who is of a similar mentality or at the very least open minded and accepting.

Listed below are just a few of our ground rules and desires

• Must be recently tested for STDs and come back clean or be willing to get tested.
• Must be willing to meet in person before any physical activities. It will be up to you if you want to meet the wife on the first meeting or not as she is often concerned with other people's comfort as much as her own.
• Single or in an ENM relationship. If in a relationship we must be able to speak with your partner to confirm their comfort and consent.
• No money of any kind will be given to you. We do not mind going out on dates occasionally and splitting the bill with the occasional paying for your meal.
• There are more personal rules that we can go over if we click and are willing to follow your rules for your comfort as long as they do not contradict our own.

We can host, we are 420 friendly, not big on drinking but have some alcohol, and overall we just like to have a relaxed time with the occasional odd goofiness.

Exchange of pictures is required. (Non-nude preferred.) Please do not message if you are not willing to meet in person, someone who can hold a conversation is also preferable but if you are shy and have a difficult time we are also very patient if you are at least honest about it.

Do not message if you are a guy, the wife is not interested at this time.