Hello my name is Paul, I live in Houston TX and would love to make some new friends either online or local. I’m a 39 year old amab enby and have been on HRT for a the last 3 months. I love watching cartoons and listening to leftist podcasts and YouTubers. I tend to get along best with kindhearted, neurospicy folx who are passionate and kinky. I’m bisexual but have a lot of trauma stimming from bad experiences perpetrated by cis men so if you happen to be one you will probably have to try harder to convince me to meet up. I love taking care of the people in my life so if we start hanging out I will probably wind up cooking and cleaning for you. I also love listening to people and helping them process their feelings and trauma. I love to party but prefer house parties and visiting friends to going out to bars and clubs but am happy to every once in a while especially if you prefer to meet and hang out in a public venue the first time we meet up. As far as BDSM goes I’m a switch with a keen interest in pain and the more spiritual and transformative aspects of BDSM. I have a lot more experience as a sub but recently have been focusing on gaining more experience in the dominant role. Clear ongoing communication is the bedrock of good BDSM so before playing with anyone I would expect to have a conversation where we could cover limits, expectations, experience, health aspects, and general aftercare. My favorite types of play are impact play, electro play, chemical play and needle play, I don’t have much experience with scalpels and cutting but am extremely interested in learning so if you have expertise in that I’m extraordinarily interested in learning and experiencing that form of play. I love BDSM and I love being a sexual being but neither are are essential for connection so whether you are interested both at the same time, both but at separate times, one or the other, or none of the above Im happy to connect with people in whatever ways are mutually beneficial. Thank you for taking the time to read this all and I look forward to hearing from you guys! XOXO