Hey there! 👋

I'm a trained Dom with 13 years online experience, looking to break into the IRL dynamic with a submissive. I don't need training, I was formally trained many years ago and you would not be "teaching" me anything (except more about you ;)).

A bit about me

I'm polyamorous with a nesting partner (looking for another partner!) She has her own DD so I'm looking to also find someone to appease my kinks. I'm a college graduate, I have a car, I have a work from home job that yields me freedom both on the phone and in person. I'm 34, 5'9, 185 lbs. I have a bit of a dad bod, but I work out, I walk/run 7 miles a week and I do weight training.

I'm Demisexual, so we will be establishing a conversation online for a while until we get to know each other and the connection is there. Im open to talk most anywhere online, but it will be online til we both agree to move it forward.

I take the lifestyle seriously. I know that this is who I really am and I'm looking for someone who is not satisfied (or not interested) with vanilla sex. If you are unfamiliar or untrained, that is perfectly fine. We will go through it all together. I'm also very kinky, I'm a Pleasure/Soft Dom, perfect for you starting out. I'm open to most kinks as long as I'm giving. I've been a Daddy Dom to a Master and everywhere in between, so I can fulfill a role or kink, don't worry about me. This is not just kinkiness in the bedroom, but a dynamic!! I do have a few limits however (Pegging, femdom, latex, diaper/toilet, animal, ageplay)

In my free time, I often read, I play video games and watch TV/anime/film. I also like to dabble in electronics, I'm a pretty mechanical guy (and I don't mean in the bedroom ;))

What I'm looking for

• I'm looking for an open, honest and transparent partner! (DO NOT inquire if you aren't serious!)

• A LONG TERM dynamic. I want to invest time in you and I hope you will want to do the same. Do not apply if you are seeking something short term!

• A submissive LOCAL to the Houston area. I DO NOT want you visiting. You must LIVE in Houston. I can host, but I don't want to have to make it a trip across the state or another state.

• A submissive younger than myself (preferably 21 )

• A submissive fine with having a polyamorous Dom (You will be my only submissive, but I am married, so keep that in mind)

• A submissive without experience (I'm totally fine with a submissive WITH experience, but just be aware that I have not had a IRL dynamic aside from a few kinky play sessions with my wife)

• A submissive with an open-mind when it comes to kinks and wanting to experiment! (Let's have experiences and try new things together!)

• Shorter than 5'6.

• A clean bill of health (it doesn't have to be provided right away, as I said we will be conversing online but you will present papers and so will I before we do anything non-platonic in person)

• A non-smoker

• A submissive that doesn't mind/not allergic to cats

• Left leaning and Non-religious (this is negotiable)

• You to have your own form of transportation (I do not have time to come get you, I can come to you or you can come to me, but no pick ups)

Send a CHAT and tell me a bit about yourself: Age, Kinks, Hobbies, Describe yourself or send a photo (I'll return with one), why the lifestyle is for you and why you have an interest in being a sub, tell me somethings that are fun about you that make you you!

Let's get to know each other and have fun!