Our vacation starts in 5 days. I read aloud a social media post where someone asked what fun things there are for adults to do in the area. The first sentence of the response was, "There's a swingers club at (address). That responder went on to list other things unrelated to adults, swinging, or sex.

That prompted my wife to ask questions. We have yet lived this fantasy but we've discussed and roleplayed adding another guy for over a year. After I answered her questions, she said, "If you promise we don't have to do it right then and there, I think we shpuld try it." I told her that from what I've read, a lot of people go to clubs like this and never participate unless they have sex with their own partner due to such a sexually charged atmosphere. I said, "Babe, this would be our first time. We have have sex with each other if we get turned from everything happening around us, but unless you say so, nobody else will be touching you."

All I heard from her was, in a very hushed almost whispered voice (it's been a long day and she's tired) was. "Ffffuuuccckkkkkkk that's hot." Then a slight little snore as she fell asleep.

Moving in the right direction...