Whenever I started going out with my now wife I found myself in the unusual situation whereby I knew an awful lot about what she liked and didn’t like in bed.

I was living with a few lads in university and one of them had a thing going with this girl. Nothing serious , they hooked up when it suited and their “friendship” lasted a couple of months.

The rest of us in the house took great pleasure in listening to their frequent and often noisy sex and the morning after each of these sessions he took delight in reliving what they had done, what she liked and didn’t like.

So when we got together I knew exactly what I would be allowed to do and what she liked.