My wife's body count is at 11, including me. It's taken some time but I have figured out all the names of the guys she's slept with except for 3 of them.

One is the guy that took her virginity, I recently learned about this one and she drove me by the house where it happened. Little did I know I have been driving by it every day for work.

Another one is a one night stand she had with a construction worker that was working on a building next to her job, she doesn't even know his name, or at least she said she doesn't.

The last one is a married man she had an affair with. She won't tell me his name because she's too embarrassed of him.

Now I have meet 4 of them over the years just by running into them in public, I'm not out searching for them or looking them up on social media. But knowing their names adds more to the story.